An unwanted tradition Christmas day, is upon me once again.

Christmas 1967

by Olan Mills

What has now become an unwanted tradition during the week
of Christmas is upon me once again. In addition, I think it will carry
on for a few more years, because I don’t think my parents
are getting any younger.

Winter Park Tower-Skilled care Unit, was the gathering place
for Christmas of 2006, my Grandmother held on and was very
coherent, by the following morning she passed away.

In 2007, I spent Christmas day with my stepfather who was
at ORMC one year and the following year at Conway Lakes
during the week leading up Thanksgiving of 2008.

I even jumped in to carry on this weird tradition, I went for cancer
treatment at MD Anderson Houston for the last two weeks
in December of 2008.

So this year my father holds the unwanted honor of why the family
is once again, spending Christmas at the skilled nursing unit
of Westminster of Delaney Park.

I usually try to see the good in situation thrust upon me, but I am really
over this odd Kennedy like tradition. I attribute the disdain towards
the knowing that usually the person at the center of why I am spending
Christmas in a health care unit is usually not with me to bring
in the coming New Year.


My life is their lifeline

Dad, A Bear and William Tripp – [l to r]

Caring for our elderly parents, was it a class
I overlooked in college?

– No, not even offered, but very much needed.
I was born in the winter of ’63, a “baby boomer”,
That’s me.

I am now on the verge of my fifth year assisting
an elderly group of family members, whom shall
remain nameless, yet well define, the days turn
into months, and the first year of my forties
become the last year of freedom as I defined it.

In the past four years, I have spent much time
overseeing their visits to; doctors, pharmacy,
and untimely ERs appearances.

I can only hope that I will come to appreciate
and understand the last four and a half years,
along with the onset of another new year filled
with uncertain mornings, inpatient telephone
calls and endless mundane reading in virus
fill waiting rooms, a majority, surprisingly not
designed for motorized chairs, walking canes
and square tennis ball trimmed walkers.

QTips, Waiting Rooms and Early Bird Specials

Q-Tips, Waiting Rooms and Early Bird Specials

I stop to use a pay phone, circa 1997; I glanced at the car…

– upon observing the white Lincoln Continental, with three
white-haired sisters, whom sat quietly in the back seat, I was
reminded of a box of Q-tips® , align, in a row, although
mass-produced, at glance they looked similar, but if you take
a closer look, each one has its own unique “fluffy tip”

The story of why I use the word q-tips when referencing
a generation twice my age.

A friend and I had just picked up her mother and two aunts
at the airport. I was informed of their initial destination of their
two-month vacation itinerary.  So with their safe arrival
and suitcases retrieved, we were ready to take the three
lovely women, now comfortably seated in the backseat
of my own mothers car, I was bestowed the task of driving
them to their first destination. Thinking I had what I needed…
I thought, as I drove into the darkness of night with purpose.

As the stars replaced the streetlights, highways became
a two-lane road.  [We had just passed the township sign,
population 819]. I spoke, a few simple, but very important
words,” I will need the street address”… The response
to my request was” I have it here, on this paper”.

My friend reached for the paper, which was scribe with
what I thought would offer me the instructions to their
brothers home.  The paper looked rather small to have
the usual information needed to find someone’s address,
a place I for one, had not been too, nor my friend, even though
it was her uncles winter home.

I could see, as the paper got closer, the numbers and words
came together in my head, and laughter burst from me
as if I had been punked by Ashton Kutcher.  My eyes would
not lie, would they?  So with firm knowledge of what I was
reading, would not be adequate to find their brothers home,
at least without the aid of a local postal employee.

Although the numbers looked larger than life on paper, I tried
to emphasize the reality that their brother and sister-law did not
reside at the local post office. Therefore, even though the city
of Webster is an area of 1.3 miles of it is land, none of which
is covered by water, we would still be hard pressed to find
their brothers home without his the typical information.

Just as we were about to head back into Orlando, and try to make
other arrangements, a local police officer drove by, I said, “hey, let’s
asked if he knew where the RV parks are located and how many
are there in the city limits. and how many there were.  We caught
up with the officer, and asked our question, and we received answer,
but not the one we wanted to hear. The officer stated he had just
moved to the area, but suggested the two streets we should look on.

Therefore, by process of elimination, we were able to locate
and drop the three lovely women, whom inspired my term “Qtips”.

I always like the phase in this song by the band Fastball called “The Way”

“Their children woke up
And they couldn’t find them
They left before the sun came up that day
They just drove off and
left it all behind ’em
But where were they going without ever
Knowing the way?”

“You can see their shadows
wandering off somewhere
They won’t make it home
But they really don’t care
They wanted the highway
They’re happier there today, today”
–Fastball/Tony Scalzo

Jack “enjoys a day at Epcot”

Insanity on steroids [finn perkins 7.07.2006]

Insanity on steroids

Smooth out the rough edges of your soul.
Complete the circle, to make you whole.
Take a moment to give, the moment will give back
Make a move toward a future without pain
Going backwards is just insanity on steroids

Let the heart and soul come together.
Complete the circle, to make you whole
Take a moment to give, the moment will give back
Make a move toward a future without pain
Going backwards is just insanity on steroids

The lacking understanding and the wiliness to try will
only lead you down a road of sadness and unrelenting lies.
Complete the circle, to make you whole
Take a moment to give, the moment will give back
Make a move toward a future without pain
Going backwards is just insanity on steroids

You will find what you gain from the changes you choose
to make will far out weigh the pain and the wait.
Complete the circle, to make you whole
Take a moment to give, the moment will give back
Make a move toward a future without pain
Going backwards is just insanity on steroids
[finn perkins 7.07.2006]

Jackson Showing off his “Pink” side


Jack is out an about again :-)

room 19 D orange county courthouse

Jack finds a great view of the defendant

Jack's court room closeup

Jack's court room closeup

FloriDAH! still on the books as of 2008 “ADULTERY & COHABITATION” …I’m guilty as charged.

Ok, so you want Gay marriage laws passed here in FloriDAh!, …Well I say “great, but we might want to removes these laws first, to make room for the new laws.”    …ya-think   😉


The 2008 Florida Statutes


798.01 Living in open adultery.

798.02 Lewd and lascivious behavior.

798.01 Living in open adultery.

–Whoever lives in an open state of adultery shall be guilty of a misdemeanor of the second degree, punishable as provided in s. 775.082 or s. 775.083.

Where either of the parties living in an open state of adultery is married, both parties so living shall be deemed to be guilty of the offense provided for in this section.

History.–s. 1, ch. 1986, 1874; RS 2595; GS 3518; RGS 5406; CGL 7549; s. 772, ch. 71-136.

798.02 Lewd and lascivious behavior.

–If any man and woman, not being married to each other, lewdly and lasciviously associate and cohabit together, or if any man or woman, married or unmarried, engages in open and gross lewdness and lascivious behavior, they shall be guilty of a misdemeanor of the second degree, punishable as provided in s. 775.082 or s. 775.083.

History.–s. 6, ch. 1637, 1868; RS 2596; GS 3519; RGS 5407; CGL 7550; s. 773, ch. 71-136.


Punishable as provided in s. 775.082 or s. 775.083   

RxxxFxxxPxxxx; Her definition of “manly” is different than Websters….

and here is Webster’s…

manly (man′lē)
adjective manlier -·lier, manliest -·li·est
      Etymology: ME: see man & -ly
  1. having the qualities generally regarded as those that
    a man should have; virile; strong, brave, resolute,
    honorable, etc.
  2. fit for a man; masculine manly sports
Obsolete in a manly way
Related Forms:
  • manliness man′·li·ness noun

I think this person just wants me to post my photo.
So, as not to disapoint my non-finn fans, here it is…

It seems that over the past 90 days their has been some odd chatter as to who i am. the latest is that I have been label “manly”… [see comment below photo, this from a person in Phillidelphia PA.]

...." We all know who she is as her pic is on her twitter page and trust
me she is not 24... more like 44...and manly built... DOUBLE UGH!
Posted by: RxxxFxxxPxxxx | June 15, 2009 at 08:07 PM
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remember…MANLY 😉




Manly is an adjective corresponding to manliness,
manhood, or masculinity.


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What do you think?


Jackson a.k.a. “Fuzygenius” attends the latest Anthony hearings. Kathi Belich is…

Jackson  a.k.a. “Fuzygenius” attends the latest Anthony hearings.

jack goes to court

Jackson goes to court

Kathi Belich is not sure whether to cover the hearings, or Break the story that “fuzygenius,” whose blog has all but blasted coverage of her the pre-trial antics.

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